Hi. Me and my wife had a beautiful baby girl a few weeks ago. She is darling and I can’t complain about her at all but I do have some problems with the process of her birth. Supposedly, in order to alleviate the pain and help along the process of giving birth, the doctor massaged my wife’s clitoris while waiting for the baby to be delivered. Before he did so he asked my wife if it was okay and she said it would be fine. I had to just stand there holding my wife’s hand while this doctor sexually aroused her. After a while I could tell she was really getting into it and she took her hand away from me and the doctor asked her if she wanted me to wait outside. I had to listen to the debate my presence until she eventually asked me to wait out in the hall for a few minutes. It was VERY apparent from the sounds I heard coming out of her that she was enjoying herself far beyond being distracted from the labor process. This went on for about 15 minutes after I left. When I was allowed back in the doctor and her were all flirty and it definitely smelled like the scent of a woman.

I talked to my wife about this two times since and each time she has pretty much ignored me by saying it was just a natural part of the labor process and it was strictly professional. I disagree. I know she liked it more than she is letting on because she has asked me to stimulate her in a very identical manner three times since then! What do I do about this!?

Best reply by bergy10:

Well…I have never heard of this being a labor process. But in any case, why would they tell you not to be present?

Sounds weird to me.

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Wife brought to orgasm during labor. Am I right in being upset?

Hi. Me and my wife had a beautiful baby girl a few weeks ago. She is darling and I can’t complain about her at all but I do have some problems with the process of her birth. Supposedly, in order to alleviate the pain and help along the process of giving birth, the doctor massaged my wife’s clitoris while waiting for the baby to be delivered. Before he did so he asked my wife if it was okay and she said it would be fine. I had to just stand there holding my wife’s hand while this doctor sexually aroused her. After a while I could tell she was really getting into it and she took her hand away from me and the doctor asked her if she wanted me to wait outside. I had to listen to the debate my presence until she eventually asked me to wait out in the hall for a few minutes. It was VERY apparent from the sounds I heard coming out of her that she was enjoying herself far beyond being distracted from the labor process. This went on for about 15 minutes after I left. When I was allowed back in the doctor and her were all flirty and it definitely smelled like the scent of a woman.

I talked to my wife about this two times since and each time she has pretty much ignored me by saying it was just a natural part of the labor process and it was strictly professional. I disagree. I know she liked it more than she is letting on because she has asked me to stimulate her in a very identical manner three times since then! What do I do about this!?

Best reply by bergy10:

Well…I have never heard of this being a labor process. But in any case, why would they tell you not to be present?

Sounds weird to me.

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Wife brought to orgasm during labor. Am I right in being upset?

When I was like 13-14 years old and spending my holidays to my grandparents small farm I had this 2 female friends that were sisters and both older than me. Their mother used to artificial inseminate cows that were in heat and sometimes we would watch.
One day we were passing by the area were the pigs were in the fold and we noticed that one of the sows was in heat (they get their vulva a bit swollen and red). One of them asked me if we plan to get her to a boar and I said no and than she told me I should massage sow

Best reply by Candice™:

Hi well u could get one but in an establishment let’s say where guys normally go for happy endings LOL ♥

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somethings wrong with me for the last several months ive been having *chest pains* left side with or with out anxiety at random times for no apparent reason ive had a Echo And stress its gotton so bad i have tacaradia when i wake up and ONLY when i wake up.. after a few minutes it goes back to a normal rythem or doing the VULVA manover or doing the Vein Massage my Heart problem or ANxiety Problem is making it so bad that i get chest pain tachycardia and angina symptoms i am 19 years old its getting so out of control i wake up with tachycardia every SINGLE MORNING No madder what i take or do.. i guess im gonna die .. Im crying because my chest pain and anxiety of the chest pain thinking its gonna be a heart attack im sick of this im sick of having these emotinos and physcial feelings i know something is up an d my doctors aren’t saying what.. 2 different doctors said im fine and the ER rooms show no abnormal rythems just tachycardia im sick of this im crying and crying and crying and crying its serious but no one is taking me seriosly i cant take it anymore i just cant I WANT IT ALL TO STOP its gotta be a heart problem theres no way im 19 and can have this many problems with just *anxiety*

Best reply by Derka:

Did the doctor give you Valium or Xanax? You could use something like that. I have “*chest pains*” all the time, echos/murmurs, random irregular heartbeats, and I don’t think anything of it, my body has a mind of it’s own, and I understand that. It sounds like you are stressing about your body so much that you are giving yourself palpitations (when you focus on your heartbeat and its beat sounds off and you worry about the way its beating enough for it to speed up from your panic) which can physically hurt you. So if I were to diagnose you with anything from what you’ve told me, it would be a panic disorder, so try to relax and stop focusing on your heartbeat all the damn time!

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Do breast massages really make boobs bigger?
and…whats a clit? where is it? is it what u piss out of? what do you do?

Best reply by Kayleigh:

Are you like, 12?
A clitoris is a part of your vagina, and NO you don’t pee out if it, LOL

And to the breast massages thing, I don’t think so, or else nobody would have to get breast implants. They might make you horny, which temporarily inflates your boobs…

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its a straight foward question sorry if it offends people…so please be respectful or don’t answer at all…I just wanna know how can I ask without being rude to the lady

Best reply by Evangitis57:

I don’t understand how asking for an erotic massage would be rude…

But I’d say they best way would be: “Can I have an erotic massage?”

Sugar coating it might turn out wrong? I don’t know.

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how can i ask a massage theripist for a erotic massage without being rude?

its a straight foward question sorry if it offends people…so please be respectful or don’t answer at all…I just wanna know how can I ask without being rude to the lady

Best reply by Evangitis57:

I don’t understand how asking for an erotic massage would be rude…

But I’d say they best way would be: “Can I have an erotic massage?”

Sugar coating it might turn out wrong? I don’t know.

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how can i ask a massage theripist for a erotic massage without being rude?

I have used it for a while for multiple reasons with girlfriend etc and I have noticed a red spot on bottom of my shaft and i know it shouldnt be a reaction with my gf because be and her have been doing stuff you a year and i have not had any problems and she has been tested…one of the other things that lead me to believe it could be the lube is that it happened on a night i left it on til the morning so if anyone has a answer… let me know thanks!

Best reply by Alwaysknows:

Well the penis is basically skin. and like skin anywhere else on your body, it can get irritated and sensitive. more than likely after the sexual friction and the use of lube, your skin was just irritated and it caused a bump or two. i highly suggest that after having sex or fooling around using lube, you try to wash off down there. especially before going to sleep, just to avoid any friction rashes or sensitivity problems.

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3 weeks ago I began a gentle breast massage regimen for firmness- I’m 40 yrs old. They have swelled a bit and are becoming increasingly and uncomfortably sore, as they used to before my period when I was younger. Perhaps I’ve stimulated the production of a hormone because of PMS, but from what I’ve read about breast massage, it is supposed to improve the health and comfort of the breast.

Best reply by Bill Kaulitz lover 4ever!:

Breast massage made mine bigger and I’m 16.

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